Sexting might seem intimidating if you’ve never done it before, but it can easily be a fun and rewarding experience once you get the hang of it. All you need to do is equip yourself with some tips and you’ll be ready for your first Kik sexting experience. The following are five ways you can successfully use the app.
You can’t have what you want if you don’t know what you’re looking for, and part of the success with Kik sexting is knowing what you want. Before getting on the app, consider what your preferences and reasons for using the app are. What kind of people are you looking to meet? Someone with an “alternative look” and lots of tattoos and piercings? Someone a little more clean cut? And are you looking to sext with lots of people or just use Kik to maintain a “relationship” with a sexting buddy? Your experience of Kik will become a lot smoother once you get a solid idea of what you’d like to find and do on the app.
Many people who are new to sexting feel awkward and uncomfortable because they aren’t confident in what they’re doing and saying. This is totally normal for a novice sexter. At first, it might seem silly to say certain things you might not even say in person to someone you’re having a sexual experience with. But sexting is a time to explore and get in touch with your wild side. Let your freak flag fly and get connected with other people who are just as up for sexting adventures and experimentation as you are.
As a follow-up to the previous tip, it’s always a good idea to ease into a new sexting scenario, particularly if you are new to sexting or initiating a new sexting experience with someone you don’t know. No need to start off too aggressively; set up a scenario and work into it. That way you’re both comfortable and the steady pace is a good way to build up excitement.
Emojis are your friend when sexting, provided you know the emoji “lingo” and correct ways to use them. There are general, everyday emojis that everyone uses for G-rated circumstances, and then there are G-rated emojis that can be used for dirty conversations. For example, the eggplant is often used when referring to a man’s penis (however, if a man sends you the shrimp emoji, that could also mean he is referencing male genitalia), the taco and the honeypot represent the vagina, and the peach represents the bottom. You can also get creative and find other emojis to integrate into your sexting conversations.
Firstly, don’t send photos right out of the gate, especially if this is your first sexting encounter with someone. This point refers back to the previous tip about easing into things. Photos can come later if you and your sexting buddy are really getting into things. If the first thing you do is fire off a bunch of explicit photos right away, it might be a turn-off. Start the experience out with some flirtatious conversation first, then work your way up to pics. And another word on pictures: keep your face out of them. This also goes for anything else on your body that could give away your identity (e.g., tattoos).
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